1교시 오전 10시 30분~1시 30분/ 영어강독/ (<The Revolution of Hope>, E. Fromm)
2교시 오후 1시 30분~2시 30분 한문강독(<錦溪筆談>)
3교시 오후 3시~4시/ 중국어 강독(<三國志>)
4교시 오후 4시~5시 / 일문강독( <日本の名隨筆>)
(시간이 30분씩 순연되었으니, 참고해요.)
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Child's Beauty Attracts Uncomfortable Compliments
DEAR ABBY: I have been blessed with a gorgeous 4-year-old daughter who is (even more importantly) smart, funny and kind, but I have an issue. Every time we go anywhere or meet someone new, the person feels the need to comment on her beauty. We receive comments like, Just wait till she's older. Boys will be all over her! This happens not only with older distant relatives and my in-laws, but also random people at the grocery store.
DEAR PROTECTIVE: Talk privately with the relatives and tell them you don't want them filling her head with that nonsense before she's even in elementary school. Tell them you prefer she be praised instead for her brains, her manners and her niceness, which will reinforce the qualities you are trying to instill in your daughter. And when a stranger does it at the grocery store, immediately interject with examples of her more important internal qualities.
DEAR ABBY: I dated a guy who was in a nasty divorce and custody battle. He gained primary custody, but his ex wouldn't stop taking him to court. She was very unstable.
After four years of being patient, it became frustrating. One day I pointed out that the situation was taking up all his time and energy, and I wasn't getting the attention I needed. I sarcastically suggested maybe he should shift his full attention to the situation, and we should take a break.
He agreed (via text) that he had a lot going on, then immediately stopped communicating with me. I texted, called, sent cards and received no replies. It has been a year, and I feel like I can't move on without closure or at least a conversation. I have tried dating at the suggestion of friends, but it doesn't work because I still love him. What steps can I take to move on? -- FROZEN IN PLACE IN ALABAMA
DEAR FROZEN: Painful as it may be, accept it. Give yourself a specific period in which to mourn and tell yourself the man is dead. (The romance certainly is, and you have my sympathy for the loss.) Wear black, toss out any mementos, and get together with a few close friends for a memorial for what might have been. Then bury him with as many tears as necessary and look resolutely ahead. (I did this once many years ago, and it worked.)
